Monthly Archives: October 2007

Diagnosis: LDR

LDR. Long-distance relationships. Sounds like a disease. But are they really that bad? Not a single one of the 12 dating self-help books sitting in the cubbies under my coffee table touch on this. Google would know. Indeed. All the web sites I found (and there were a ton) were surprisingly upbeat about how LDRs actually can work. The key: daily communication to maintain a connection. Which is why I had heart palpitations a week before I was supposed to go to NY to see Simon. (more)

‘Twas bound to happen…

Ran into Motorcycle Guy on the street last night. He’s apparently NOT a ghost. (I knew it!) As luck would have it, I was on my way to yoga makeup-less and wearing yoga clothes—and I don’t own cute yoga clothes. At all. It would have been so much better if I could have just looked fabulous. (more)

The Golden Rules

Over the past ten years, I’ve come up with two rules for dating:

1. Never get back together with someone. You broke up for a reason.

2. Never date long distance. You’ll drive yourself insane. (more)