http://scienceofsingle.com/2009/12/10/who-pays/ Dating. Of course. Thu, 29 Jul 2010 19:44:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://scienceofsingle.com/2009/12/10/who-pays/#comment-295 The Single Scientist Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:15:51 +0000 http://scienceofsingle.com/?p=604#comment-295 Lia: Me, too! Though I have to say, I had a similar situation with someone who paid all the time. He was VERY confusing. I've come to realize it's less about paying and more about what he (and you) are willing to put into the relationship. Having to chase someone just to "hang out" is redonkulous. And we always know when we're doing it. Luckily, I am way too old to "hang out" anymore. Lia: Me, too! Though I have to say, I had a similar situation with someone who paid all the time. He was VERY confusing. I’ve come to realize it’s less about paying and more about what he (and you) are willing to put into the relationship. Having to chase someone just to “hang out” is redonkulous. And we always know when we’re doing it. Luckily, I am way too old to “hang out” anymore.

]]> http://scienceofsingle.com/2009/12/10/who-pays/#comment-294 Lia Sun, 24 Jan 2010 04:33:33 +0000 http://scienceofsingle.com/?p=604#comment-294 This post is so spot on. I have fallen in to wayyy too many relationships (honestly more than one is too many) where I thought "well, him paying isn't really that big of a deal" and fell into a lame relationship where I felt like I was desperately chasing after him to 'hang out', in a sort of exclusive friends with benefits situation. This post is so spot on. I have fallen in to wayyy too many relationships (honestly more than one is too many) where I thought “well, him paying isn’t really that big of a deal” and fell into a lame relationship where I felt like I was desperately chasing after him to ‘hang out’, in a sort of exclusive friends with benefits situation.

]]> http://scienceofsingle.com/2009/12/10/who-pays/#comment-212 Arius Thu, 10 Dec 2009 20:15:13 +0000 http://scienceofsingle.com/?p=604#comment-212 Well, if you make it into a book, can I write the foreword?...lol;) Well, if you make it into a book, can I write the foreword?…lol;)

]]> http://scienceofsingle.com/2009/12/10/who-pays/#comment-211 Jason Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:00:42 +0000 http://scienceofsingle.com/?p=604#comment-211 I am a straight male, and that is my words. But it is rare for a girl to ask a guy out though. But any ways I would still be expected to pay, or feel I have have to since I am the guy. I am a straight male, and that is my words. But it is rare for a girl to ask a guy out though. But any ways I would still be expected to pay, or feel I have have to since I am the guy.

]]> http://scienceofsingle.com/2009/12/10/who-pays/#comment-210 The Single Scientist Thu, 10 Dec 2009 15:17:12 +0000 http://scienceofsingle.com/?p=604#comment-210 x2: Two girls. Hmmm. From what I hear from lesbian friends, lesbian women generally move in together on the second date. Seriously, I consulted about.com and they say, whoever asks pays. And whoever asks should take the date to a place she knows she can afford. http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbiandating/f/WhoPays.htm x2: Two girls. Hmmm. From what I hear from lesbian friends, lesbian women generally move in together on the second date. Seriously, I consulted about.com and they say, whoever asks pays. And whoever asks should take the date to a place she knows she can afford. http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbiandating/f/WhoPays.htm

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